Okanagan: Assertion—Say What You Mean and Mean What You Say

Presented by: 
Alan Simpson of the Justice Institute of British Columbia
Wednesday, May 14, 2014 - 9:00am
Okanagan Campus
Art Building, 1147 Research Rd, room 102
Focus Area: Workplace Skills

Program Summary

The ability to assert yourself with respect and sensitivity is key to achieving outcomes that work for you. Effective assertion can be especially difficult to maintain in conflict situations rather than overreacting or selling yourself short. This session will introduce assertion concepts and skills in a variety of challenging situations and will give you an opportunity to practice improving and maintaining an assertive style under pressure.

Audience

The goal of this session is to integrate assertiveness with active listening skills when resolving conflict, negotiating and responding to criticism.  Whether you are negotiating an important issue, expressing your thoughts and feelings in a conflict or standing firm under pressure, the ability to assert yourself is crucial to reaching outcomes that work for you.

What Justice Institute Clients have said about this session

“I enjoyed the course. I found the role plays challenging in a good way and realize I require continual education - despite how many years I've been supervising.” —Robyn Alexander – Supervisor, Riverview Hospital, Forensic Psychiatric

“The course was very useful and I'm sure we will all have numerous opportunities to practice our new skills.” —Joan Harvey - Manager, Legislative Services, Sunshine Coast Regional District

“Very useful and real scenario examples to work from. Heartening to know that there is a solution to even the most difficult individual or situation.” —Beverley Anderson- Public Health Nurse, Gitxsan Health Society

What You Will Lean

  • Identify factors that influence our inability to be assertive
  • Identify the cost of not using assertion and the benefits of assertiveness
  • Identify the difference between assertiveness and aggressive, passive or passive-aggressive behaviors
  • Describe the elements of assertive communication
  • Utilize “I” messages and descriptive language in assertiveness
  • Use an assertion model for objectionable behaviour
  • Identify and address some challenges in assertion in conflict 

How You Will Learn

  • Interactive exercises
  • Large group discussion
  • Small group work
  • Scenario role play
  • Demonstrations

About Your Facilitator

Alan Simpson, BTh., MA (Conflict Management), Cert. ConRes, is a facilitator, trainer, conflict coach and mediator for individuals and groups. He provides engagement processes and training seminars for leaders and their organizations nationally and internationally. He has 30 years of experience in coaching and training adults, families and organizations in communication skills, change management and conflict engagement. He has worked with businesses, schools, government staff, non-profit boards and faith based organizations. His offerings include leadership development, board management, team building, and retreat facilitation. Alan is a skills coach and instructor for the Justice Institute of BC in the Okanagan. Read Alan's full CV here.

What clients have said about working with Alan

“Having worked with Alan in various situations over the last couple of years, I am continually amazed at his effectiveness as a facilitator, mediator, teacher and coach. Not only does he have these skills at the highest level, he also has a “sixth sense” about what is happening within individuals and groups. I have personally watched him lead groups with very complex conflict through transforming processes that allow them to move forward and realize greater health. I have the utmost confidence in Alan!” — Darrin Hotte, Creator/Principle -New Solution Mediation

Event Details

Assertion—Say What You Mean and Mean What You Say
Facilitated by Alan Simpson of the Justice Institute of British Columbia
Wednesday, May 14, 2014
9:00am–12:15pm
Okanagan Campus
Art Building, 1147 Research Rd
Room 102

To Register

Register for Assertion at aaps.pd@ubc.ca.

Registered attendees will receive a confirmation email. This session is open to AAPS members only and there is no cost to attend.


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